Pain in the present must be cross referenced with pain in the past. If we have a painful secret we tried to bury, that secret is not dead. It is alive and loud and demands to be heard. It will follow us and hurt us until we finally use the tool of grief that God has provided for us and that enables us to let go of whatever has a hold on us. We grieve the past so we no longer have to feel it with intensity in the present. We let go of what was, and what might have been, so we can embrace the reality of what is and what is to be.
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